Look and Listen

Biography

I am a forty-nine year old male Dominant living in central New Mexico who has been in the lifestyle for the last seven years. I met my special one online when she was living in Australia and I was in Canada. Over our time together, she saw the dominant traits in me and, not unlike Peter asking Lorna, suggested that I may be a Dom. She asked if I'd like to see what this lifestyle was all about? Even though I had similar pop culture definitions of D/s and BDSM as Lorna (from the books had), I didn't have the same conditioning from the time I was a young boy. I said that I wouldn't mind finding out more of this lifestyle and what it was all about. My lady was more that happy to oblige and shipped me more internet links than I could possibly read in one go; to tell the truth, seven years on and I still haven't finished the list.

I started Bound Freedom in about 2003 just for something to do since I was new in the United States and hadn't obtained a work permit yet. I never thought of publishing the work; however, as it matured and several of my lifestyle friends said they liked it and that it was a true representation of how things actually work in real life D/s relationships, I rethought the publishing idea.

This book shows the way that D/s works in a full time committed relationship. It does not show sex or the graphic details of scenes, and sessions. Early on in the writing of Bound Freedom, I made the decision NOT to invade the privacy of Peter, and Lorna's bedroom unless doing so actually contributed something to the story; other than just sex, and other acts which should remain private.

Inspiration

These books are my attempt to right the wrongs done to our lifestyle by pop culture, criminals, romance novelists and others who don't have a clue about what it is that we do. It is my hope that people will find that our lifestyle is not hazardous to some ones health, nor is it all that perverse. In fact we live with deep trust, love and respect; I can guarantee that the communication between D/s couples is much greater than in many non-D/s relationships. The reasons for this will be found as the reader works their way through these books and glimpses the life of Peter, Lorna and the other major characters.

Find out more at Bound Freedom's website